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reviews_and_ramblings ([personal profile] reviews_and_ramblings) wrote2009-03-26 09:24 am

The ramblings part of the journal

I really should let not the spur of the moment drives me, but it's the second time that I slept very bad since I had a not nice conversation soon before going sleep. Since I was careless enough to start this thing online, even if then continued in private, if there are people who witnessed to that, please don't make name, I really am not writing this to bring damage to another person, but only since, if I take it inside, it will burst later in a bigger way.

More or less 2 months ago I received a nice review request, and a lot of you know that I really appreciate those. It was from a new author and new publisher, so I was even more glad. Have you notice that I give priority to new authors and publishers? It would easy enough to raise comments on famous authors, but I really think that even the newest author deserves a first chance. I'm not sure but I think that I'm quite alone in doing so, and I believe so since many authors wrote to me telling that I was their "first". And most of the time I already bought the book when they ask a review, it happened only yesterday with two requests, I already had the book.

Anyway when that request arrived I was pretty clear with that author, I said that I didn't buy the book by myself since I believed it was a menages with a woman on the side, and you all know that I don't really like them. The author assured me that it was not and so I accepted the book. I even read it as soon as possible, to give the author as much more visibility near the release date as possible. I started the post giving a warning to the content of the book, specifying that it was not a menages, and received comments, even from the author, saying that many people didn't understand it and was grateful for the warning.

Then nothing for a month; after a month another review site reviewed the same book, starting the post in the same way as me, warning the readers on the content of the book; at that point the author (or the publisher) realized that they were losing readers and took the right measures. All right, two voices are better than one, but now the author is thanking that second review site saying that all started on it. I gently made notice that it was not exactly like that and the author in different comments replied to me that:

1) maybe my review had not so much space or visibility... yes right, that month my LJ had 13.300 single visits when the average for a review site is 3.000/4.000 (those are the standard to be considered "review site"), and the review remained in the front page for a week, I always try to not let them shift on second page for a reason, you know?

2) maybe people didn't read the review since I'm not enough M/M focused (on the contrary of the other review site) and so people didn't understand that it was not a polyamour book... yes, right, if I was more M/M focused I would be a man! I reviewed 1057 books at yesterday and only 20 are M/F and only 73 are menages, and among the menages only 9 with a woman, so 29 books with a woman in 1057 means a 2% of all my reviews.

3) maybe on the other review site the post received more response from people... yes, right, my review received 22 comments from 6 different people, 4 of them not involved directly with me or the author, on the other site it received 16 comments all from reviewers of that site other than 1. 22 comments... yesterday the post in which I featured Allan Hollinghurst, winner of a booker prize, received 17 comments...

So am I taking all this wrong? Should I stick with Man Candy Posts, Gay Romance Movies, and reviews of books that will be read anyway? Should I write reviews in which I say that every book is terrific? Should I ignore a review request from an unknown author and publisher till some other review site spend its time to "taste" it in advance? I know that the answers to all these questions is NO, but authors please, when you send me a book to review could at least take a look at my LJ? NOT ENOUGH M/M FOCUSED?!?!
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[identity profile] gweneiriol.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 09:57 am (UTC)(link)
NOT ENOUGH M/M FOCUSED?!?!

that's what baffled me the most! O.o

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 10:03 am (UTC)(link)
Tell me, when I read that comment I was almost in cry... more since it was made compared me to another review site which only recently devoted itself to M/M, when I did from the beginning, loosing easy opportunity to free books from many publishers.
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[identity profile] alex-beecroft.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 10:13 am (UTC)(link)
The answer to all those questions is definitely no! Possibly you suffer a bit from being the first reviewer, though. I know people have said to me that they don't start paying attention to reviews until they've seen several reviews all saying (approximately) the same thing. So maybe it wasn't until the second review that the publisher sat up and took notice, because they realized that if two people were saying it, it must be quite noticeable?


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[identity profile] gweneiriol.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 10:17 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* the person who told you this stuff is an idiot!

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 10:21 am (UTC)(link)
maybe I was so touched since I realized that what I believed was quite clear, is not. Everyday I spend some minute deciding how to organize my reading list, and always, always, pay attention to new authors and publishers, since I consider them "fragile". I really have in mind those authors with a new book out eagerly waiting for someone to take notice of what they wrote. And on the other side? there is not even the minimum consideration, since how can they said that I'm not enough M/M focused?

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 10:23 am (UTC)(link)
No not an idiot, only a person more that burst my bubble... I really should be less moved by this things

Reviews

[identity profile] pabrown.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 10:26 am (UTC)(link)
Elisa,don't change your focus. I love your reviews. I often use your reviews to find authors I might otherwise never have heard of.

Re: Reviews

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 10:32 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you :-) as I said, I know that I have to continue like that, and I know that it's not a question of not having response from people, it's more a question of being stabbed in a way I didn't expected, every comments I read it was a puncture more... Elisa

[identity profile] megleigh.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:00 am (UTC)(link)
Cara,

This is always the first review site I read and I love to read your reviews. Perhaps there was a misunderstanding, or something. But I would be very sorry to see you stop posting reviews, or change the way that you organize your reading. I've discovered several authors through your LJ and really, this one and one other are the only two I read often, and trust most.

Don't allow this to shake you up so badly.

[identity profile] clarelondon.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:04 am (UTC)(link)
if I was more M/M focused I would be a man! LOL

I'm sorry, I'm still sitting here with my mouth hanging open in shock. What the hell was she thinking???? At best she's ignorant, at worst she's damned ungrateful. Maybe she has links with the 'other' site that we know nothing about that make her think she has to pander to them first, but it's certainly NOT about you, because Elisa Rolle's blog is THE place to be.

That's because it's not just about your reviews - what you bring to the whole industry is the intelligent and thoughtful *content* and *style* of your reviews, also your fabulous support and encouragement to the whole genre itself. There are still only a handful of universally respected review sources, and yours is always on that list.

I think this will reflect on the author rather than you, and how foolish of them to upset someone who offered help and support for their early career steps.

Please remember all of us who read and love your reviews and love you as an honest and generous person as well.

:p to anyone who says different. Send them over here. I have 3 tough guys in the house will sort them out *lol*.
*hugs*

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
It will pass, as always. In this moment I have a bad migraine, and I'm too shake to reason in a right way. I know that I will not change what I do, it's always such a pleasure to open a "unknown" book to find an unexpected treasure, that I will continue in doing so. It's only that some words were really hurtful, even in unintentional, and than not enough M/M focused let me really in awe. Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:21 am (UTC)(link)
In this moment I don't know if I'm crying since my head is bursting from the migraine, since I'm upset or thanks to all the kind words. Thank you Clare, I think I will not profit of your 3 tough guys this time, but will take a rain check for the future.

[identity profile] logophilos.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:23 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, Elisa, the bitchiness towards reviewers even hits you, the sweetest of people. I'm sorry you've been treated so ungraciously, but unfortunately, many authors have no manners and a sense of entitlement regarding reviews which is quite disgraceful.

My advice is to ignore this ninny and should more items appear on offer from her...politely delete them.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:38 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really thinking to do that, and then that author has already achieved enough notoriety to being no more in need to be reviewed from a site that obviously don't match the target. I'm not enough M/M focused... am I learning to build a tough exterior? but people are fortunate enough that I'm like a the Leo of my sign, I growl today, but tomorrow is all forgotten. Elisa

[identity profile] a-j-mirag.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:39 am (UTC)(link)
This author showed how clueless she is when she said your LJ is "not enough M/M focused". But don't be dismayed, and keep up your wonderful work. You are a very respected reviewer.

[identity profile] b-sheridan.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:45 am (UTC)(link)
Please don't change a thing, Elisa.

And though this new author didn't appreciate you taking time to read and review their book so many other feel differently.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:49 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you, authors like you are the positive side of what I'm trying to bring on. Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 11:52 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you Barbara. You are among the few authors in that 2% from whom I accept a menages with a female. I know that I will like the book anyway. Elisa

[identity profile] arieltachna.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 12:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I've heard some pretty odd things in my day, but not m/m focused enough? That's pushing the bounds of credulity.

I love your reviews - and I know I'm not the only one - I read all of them even when I don't comment, and I've bought quite a few books because of discovering them here that I wouldn't have found, probably, otherwise. I don't hang out at any other review sites. So.

Keep reading and writing your reviews. Keep giving us newbies a chance (although I guess I don't count quite as much as I used to). And keep giving your readers insights into the wonderful world of m/m books.

Hugs,
Ariel

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Ariel, such a words from an author I respect like you are a real balsam. And no, you are not a newbie no more, but I will continue to read you ;-) Elisa

you`re the best

[identity profile] mxa19.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 12:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, sorry and hugs. Keep doing what you love and remember there are people like me who regularly read your reviews and love your site.
Love from Norway

[identity profile] arieltachna.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 12:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I still think of myself as a newbie sometimes, and then I remind myself it's been almost two years since Size Matters came out and that A Summer Place came out just a couple months after that.

I'm glad to know I could make you feel a little better anyway, and equally glad that you'll continue to read my books. Those are words any author loves to hear!

Re: you`re the best

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 12:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Norway eh? so you are one of those point in the cluster map that makes me wonder :-) Hugs back and thank you, Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 12:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh yes, I still remember A Summer Place, fond memories. Elisa

[identity profile] charliecochrane.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 12:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Elisa

I'd say carry on doing what you believe in, ie, just what you have been doing. I rate your LJ highly, everyone I talk to does the same. Don't take to heart what this person has said (why does m/m romance sometimes make fanfic look like a civilised place?)

Be yourself and do what you do because it's unique and wonderful.

Charlie

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