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reviews_and_ramblings ([personal profile] reviews_and_ramblings) wrote2009-03-26 09:24 am

The ramblings part of the journal

I really should let not the spur of the moment drives me, but it's the second time that I slept very bad since I had a not nice conversation soon before going sleep. Since I was careless enough to start this thing online, even if then continued in private, if there are people who witnessed to that, please don't make name, I really am not writing this to bring damage to another person, but only since, if I take it inside, it will burst later in a bigger way.

More or less 2 months ago I received a nice review request, and a lot of you know that I really appreciate those. It was from a new author and new publisher, so I was even more glad. Have you notice that I give priority to new authors and publishers? It would easy enough to raise comments on famous authors, but I really think that even the newest author deserves a first chance. I'm not sure but I think that I'm quite alone in doing so, and I believe so since many authors wrote to me telling that I was their "first". And most of the time I already bought the book when they ask a review, it happened only yesterday with two requests, I already had the book.

Anyway when that request arrived I was pretty clear with that author, I said that I didn't buy the book by myself since I believed it was a menages with a woman on the side, and you all know that I don't really like them. The author assured me that it was not and so I accepted the book. I even read it as soon as possible, to give the author as much more visibility near the release date as possible. I started the post giving a warning to the content of the book, specifying that it was not a menages, and received comments, even from the author, saying that many people didn't understand it and was grateful for the warning.

Then nothing for a month; after a month another review site reviewed the same book, starting the post in the same way as me, warning the readers on the content of the book; at that point the author (or the publisher) realized that they were losing readers and took the right measures. All right, two voices are better than one, but now the author is thanking that second review site saying that all started on it. I gently made notice that it was not exactly like that and the author in different comments replied to me that:

1) maybe my review had not so much space or visibility... yes right, that month my LJ had 13.300 single visits when the average for a review site is 3.000/4.000 (those are the standard to be considered "review site"), and the review remained in the front page for a week, I always try to not let them shift on second page for a reason, you know?

2) maybe people didn't read the review since I'm not enough M/M focused (on the contrary of the other review site) and so people didn't understand that it was not a polyamour book... yes, right, if I was more M/M focused I would be a man! I reviewed 1057 books at yesterday and only 20 are M/F and only 73 are menages, and among the menages only 9 with a woman, so 29 books with a woman in 1057 means a 2% of all my reviews.

3) maybe on the other review site the post received more response from people... yes, right, my review received 22 comments from 6 different people, 4 of them not involved directly with me or the author, on the other site it received 16 comments all from reviewers of that site other than 1. 22 comments... yesterday the post in which I featured Allan Hollinghurst, winner of a booker prize, received 17 comments...

So am I taking all this wrong? Should I stick with Man Candy Posts, Gay Romance Movies, and reviews of books that will be read anyway? Should I write reviews in which I say that every book is terrific? Should I ignore a review request from an unknown author and publisher till some other review site spend its time to "taste" it in advance? I know that the answers to all these questions is NO, but authors please, when you send me a book to review could at least take a look at my LJ? NOT ENOUGH M/M FOCUSED?!?!

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Angie, I will try to sleep it off ;-) Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Kit. I will try to look at the fruit basket and don't let this bad apple make it appears less beautiful than it is. Elisa

[identity profile] jay-lygon.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:32 pm (UTC)(link)
No wonder you have a headache.

I love your site. It's one of the few on my Live Journal friends page. I can't tell you how many books I'd never heard of before your review, and bought after rading what you said about it.



[identity profile] shiawmeimei.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Big hugs, Elisa! I'm sorry you have to deal with this. You were one of my first reviewers when my first book came out. I love your Man Candy and romance history posts. Please don't change a thing because of one person's words.

I hope your migraine goes away and you feel better soon!

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Marguerite. It's always nice to hear that I have given to the story my own personal interpretation, and that it has not made the author feel bad. Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Lauralyn, this makes me feel real grateful for having you all as my friends. Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Jay. It's good to know that I'm a faithful source, I know I have my faults, but probably my friends know how to "read" me. Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Shayla. Again you are among those authors that tend to slip in my reading list not since I don't like you, but since I try to give priority to newbies... maybe I should reconsider only that. Elisa

(Anonymous) 2009-03-26 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Elisa, you are the first place I send my books and the books of all the authors I publish. We always know that we will receive a fair, thorough discussion of our work. Many of my authors beg to have me ask you for a quote for the print covers. A good, solid review of a book from you is considered to be the ultimate compliment and an acknowledgment that the author was indeed on the right track with their work.
I claim the right of one of your first M/M authors that you read and I have remained a loyal follower of yours just as you have been a trusted, fair and loyal supporter of mine and the genre I write and publish in. No one is more dedicated, more informed, more supportive and more invested in this genre as a reader, reviewer and fan than you are, IMO.

It is a sure sign of an inexperienced author in this genre that doesn't recognize that. Don't lose any sleep over this slight. I'm sure 99% of the authors out there appreciate your expertise and your promotions of their work. I know I do.
You have become a part of the foundation of this genre as much as any of us 'old-timers'. I value you, your dedication to us and your site.

Three cheers for Elisa!

Laura Baumbach, author, promoter and publisher

[identity profile] rosiet.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Elisa, I have never commented on your blog before, because I'm too shy to, but in this instance I simply must!

My reading of choice is ONLY m/m romance ...and I can't tell you how important your reviews have become to me. I can't tell you how many books I have bought BECAUSE of your reviews.

Since I discovered you, I have never not read a book review of yours either. I value your thoughts highly. And I read ALL your reviews, because I know if you like it, then probably so will I, and I am totally m/m focused!!

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Laura, I'm really in tears thank to all of you, but trust me, they are good tears. All this thing is blowing down, and this is only my way to react at this. Thank you again, I love you, your authors and your books (both as authors than publishers). Elisa

[identity profile] tamara-allen.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:50 pm (UTC)(link)
You are the sweetheart of all time for doing so much for us, to promote our work. I don't know how anyone could be less than grateful to you. This unkind person is not worth losing sleep over. :hugs:

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you rosiet, also to not hate me since I read too much ;-) often the M/M readers are silent people, I was like that till the time I thought that I was losing a lot in not making people know what I really like. And I'm not regretting a day from that, maybe night like yesterday I would prefer to forget, but still, allows me to feel of your love. Thank you, Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 03:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Tamara, I will not loose sleep not more on this, I realized it's not worth. Elisa

[identity profile] jadebuchanan.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 04:19 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* Elisa! It's quite obvious by all the love and support you've gotten here that you're a wonderful asset to the m/m community and I for one wouldn't know what to do without you!! I love your reviews, you are always very honest and I know when you read my stuff that you're giving me a truthful review. Don't let this author get you down, you're an amazing person!!

Jade

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Jade, you are guilty of that 2% with the first feline story... maybe I will have to hold it against you that I'm not enough M/M focused... you know yes, that I'm jocking? I really appreciated your support. Elisa

[identity profile] dakotaflint.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 04:32 pm (UTC)(link)
So many people have said it already, but I love your reviews! Your support and enthusiasm for the m/m genre is evident in every heartfelt review you write, and you are so very kind and gracious. We're all so very lucky to have you!

And when I think of all the books I've bought, the movies I've watched, the art I've enjoyed, and the models I've learned about...I don't think anyone has as much influence on my entertainment and spare time than you, the lovely Elisa. :)

the ungrateful diva

[identity profile] vjbanis.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Elisa, I adore you and treasure your reviews - in fact, I just love reading your comments, I learn so much about a book and about writing. Just keep right on doing everything your way - the rest of us are very happy with it (and I'd love to know who that writer is)

Big Hugs,

Victor

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Dakota, also your kind words are really appreciated. Elisa

[identity profile] kiernankelly.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
"if I was more M/M focused I would be a man!"

I do so love you, Elisa! :)

I think this is a case of an author's ignorance showing.

Your reviews are thoughtful, insightful, and not just a rehashed synopsis of the plot -- this is why people love your blog, read your reviews, and often buy a book based on your recommendation. You're honest without being snarky, something I know that I, as an author, greatly appreciate.

To say you aren't m/m focussed only makes it obvious to me that the author never read past your review of his/her own book.

Don't continue to let it get you down. Judging from the number of comments to this post, you have a lot of friends out there, both readers and writers, who know the truth and who support you, me included.

Kiernan

Re: the ungrateful diva

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Victor! you manage to leave a comment! I'm so glad of that, welcome to my little place :-) You make me smile, and it's good enough. I really don't want to say the name of that person, it's not worth, in a way it allows me to feel so much love that I'm overwhelmed. Elisa

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes I realize that probably that author was not someone who knows me, and what makes me sad is that maybe I let it down someone else to give them space. I will be more careful in the future, but I will not stop to "taste" new thing, it's like I am. Thank you for your kind words, Elisa
Edited 2009-03-26 16:41 (UTC)

Chin Up

[identity profile] erotichorizon.blogspot.com (from livejournal.com) 2009-03-26 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi Elisa, I am a lurker for not only months but years and i have seen some silly things over my time with Elisa Rolle - but this is just unbelievable. While we have different approach to reviews, i respect your objectivity and the fact that you are so sweet in everything you do. You genuinely love what you do and your blog is clearly a labour of love "Not M/M focus" - indeed. know that you will continue as always to have my stance support. Erotic Horizon.

[identity profile] jadebuchanan.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 05:48 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL!! Yes yes, I'm to blame!! Don't worry, I know you were joking :)

That's why I had to laugh when I heard her original comment because I know how you view menages, especially if there's a woman involved, so it just makes no sense that she thinks you aren't m/m focused. *shakes head*

Re: Chin Up

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2009-03-26 05:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Erotic Horizon, I realized only recently that you were among my friends and I feed your blog on my friends page. Your words are even more appreciated since it one thing that I respect very much, having different opinion but being able to talk. Elisa

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