A forced farewell

[reviews_and_ramblings]

In this moment I'm wondering if people know how hurt they can do with a simple click. I lost a friend on LJ some days ago, he removed me from his friendlist without a word. As I said in a previous post, I know that my LJ can be "particular" (to be gentle) and so I tried to justify that act. But it still hurt, since I believed we were friend beyond LJ. He has my email, he could say a word before doing something like that, and instead nothing. I didn't write to him since I had done in the past, when I noticed some strange things happening, a "cold" in our emails or comments that I hadn't found before, but he said that no, nothing had changed and I thought maybe it was a language barrier.

When he removed me from his friendlist, I removed him from mine too, it's my rule, but I fed his blog... stupid me, I was thinking to at least leaving a link. Then this night he removed me from another social network, again without a word... and now I hear the message loud and clear. I removed him too, from that social network and also from the feeds of my LJ. I also removed the tag I had of him but I didn't remove the posts.

I have an idea why he did so, and this make me even more sad. I really believed him a friend. I have learned a lesson more tonight.

ETA: I also deleted my account on Twitter, the worst personal experiences I had in these last months are due to that social network. If you were friend of me there, you know where to find me, I didn't friend no one on Twitter that it was not my friend also on LJ.

Comments

Re: previous comment

[sedonia-guillon.livejournal.com]

No problem. I'm having a similar thing with a girlfriend of mine from very long ago. She doesn't answer my e-mails. I call her parents house and they never answer the phone or return my calls. It's very strange and I worry, what did I do to upset her? I just have to think it's her issue. If I upset her, then it's up to her to tell me what the matter is. People have their own reasons for things, painful as it is.

Re: previous comment

[elisa-rolle.livejournal.com]

Yes, I know. It's always more difficult when you don't know the reason. I believe to know, but it's so small in comparison to what I thought we have that to me it seems impossible. But I don't find any other reason, so I will content me with that. Elisa