Gossip!

[reviews_and_ramblings]

I have a photo I like very much. Till yesterday I didn't know the name of the model, but a friend of a friend on my LJ unvealed the segret:



His name is Eric Balfour and I have discovered that he mainly work for tv fiction, like 24. But I have also read a very saucy gossip... apparently he lives with Ian Somerhalder




Ian and Eric and a third person at a party

Do you imagine what my naughty mind is thinking just now?

Yes, yes I know, I'm a little pervy, but well a girl can have fantasies...

Elisa

Comments

[ashmedai.livejournal.com]

I'm not monogamous (though I've been in the same "main" relationship since I was sixteen years old and don't intend to leave him ever), but I think men are possessive and jealous too. Maybe in a different way - if it's "just" sex I'm fine with my partner being with someone else; but if there's emotional involvement I'd probably go crazy with jealousy too. But that's just me - I know plenty of gay men who couldn't handle being in an open relationship and insist on total monogamy.

[elisa-rolle.livejournal.com]

> if it's "just" sex I'm fine with my partner being with someone else; but if there's emotional involvement I'd probably go crazy with jealousy too

Bingo! Here is the difference. For me it's impossible to separate sex from emotional involvement. If a man make sex with a woman, he must feel something for her (Consciously I know that it's not like that, but emotionally I can't think in other way), and so he is betraying me. You instead, separate sex from love: if your man make sex with another man, he is not making love, so it's all right, yes?

[ashmedai.livejournal.com]

You instead, separate sex from love: if your man make sex with another man, he is not making love, so it's all right, yes?

That's exactly it - it's more like...getting a hamburger somewhere. Yes, we really can be that shallow, lol.

[elisa-rolle.livejournal.com]

No, not shallow, different. I strongly believe that people has the right to behave how they want (given that they don't hurt someone else). In the big and in the small thing.

If you have a partner who thinks as you think, it's all right that you have your way and I have mine.

What I hate most are those people who claims to love the others, but only if they choose to behave as themself.

Individuality and diversity are the most beautiful things in the world, they make us unique.