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reviews_and_ramblings ([personal profile] reviews_and_ramblings) wrote2010-08-19 08:06 pm

The pro and cons, to be or not to be...

When wondering why and if I have to continue with this blog, I received an email like this one:

"Greetings and respect from a gay leatherman who finds your reviews truly excellent

Dear Signora Rolle,

I wish to express my sincere thank you and my profound respect for your wonderful and discerning reviews. I use your reviews to select what M/M fiction I will like best and you never, ever let me down.

You provide a wonderful service, taking your passion for M/M fiction and sharing it primarily wih female readers but also with gay men.

I also love the beautiful male images which you have collected.

You are a wonderful person, a wonderful and expressive writer. I both admire and respect you. Thank you so very much."

I received this email weeks ago, and also in a moment when I was a bit down. Then I read it and decided there was a reason for doing what I'm doing. Then again yesterday I wondered again; maybe I should let other people doing that, other reviewers with more experience... why a straight woman should read and review gay romances? but now, when I will wonder again, I have the above letter to give me a reason to continue.

My response to Victoria Brownworth: http://elisa-rolle.livejournal.com/1108364.html

[identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com 2010-08-21 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
i've felt like giving up too. who knew so many people could be so vicious?

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2010-08-21 08:10 am (UTC)(link)
we are human and words are dangerous weapons, above all when you are not feeling good. Sarah's comment it's probably the best way to explain why I should not give up, "I just wish I could explain to those who are circling the queer wagons that we are all so much more alike than we are different. Let's take down the walls and just be humans."