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reviews_and_ramblings ([personal profile] reviews_and_ramblings) wrote2008-12-17 08:48 pm

How to make Elisa smiles after a very shitty day...

This is one of the few personal entries I post sometime... Today was one of that day to forget (maybe since it's 17?). Anyway it seemed started well, my manager told me that my work in the last two projects went well and they asked to my boss if they can have me for another half year. It's a good news since the project is in Dublin, and I like to travel for work. Then tonight, while I was coming back home I had a very bad car accident: to me less damage, I have a mild concussion on the head, but my car is destroyed and I'm also in the wrong side, so I have to pay also the damage to the other car. I have a few money I was saving for a travel I would like to gift to my mother, and instead I will use it to repair the car.

I was just entering home when again I saw a nice letter addressed to me; since it's not the first time I knew that it was by Katrina Strauss and probably it was her nice new cover... and it was, and she also sent me two postcards this time so when I opened the letter and obviously my mother asked for the postcard, this time I could give it to her... it was almost a tragic drama scene, opening the letter I was crying since all the tension was going on me but I was also smiling for the nice thought from Katrina

All right, enough for this night, and I swear this is only a passing post, I will not make an habit to rant of my problem in this journal...

ETA: I should add this, thank you to all people who wish me good and also other... it was a shitty day and other things happened in the past on the financial side of my life, but as I said, my day work is going well, and I will face also this last event. I wrote the post more as a way to loosen the tension than other, this LJ is a good therapeutical tool for me :-). No worry, in a day or two I will be again of my usual mood. Many many thanks to all of you. Elisa


Sleight of Hand by Katrina Strauss, Cover Art by Anne Cain

[identity profile] luscious-words.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)
*sends e-hugs* I'm sorry it was a bad day and that you had that accident. I hope you heal rapidly and that the damage isn't too expensive.

While it's not a cover from a book, I do offer you an icon I made especially to use when I commented on your LJ.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Layla. It's from a movie? Elisa

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[identity profile] yana-ambf.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry to hear about your car accident. The good news is that you're not seriously injured (luckily!). The rest will pass. :)

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, it will pass, but I didn't need it now. Elisa

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[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't like too much doctor :-( I took a pill and my boss said I can take some day home. It's enough. And thank you very much for the postcards, also my mother like it very much.

[identity profile] mongrelheart.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
So sorry to hear about the accident! I hope you are OK! *hugs*

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm still a bit down, but it will pass. Thank you, Elisa

[identity profile] marquesate.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm just glad that nothing happened to you. It would have been horrible to lose you. It's sad to have to pay, but it is, in the end, "only" money, You are mostly safe and sound and that is what counts. (also, I hope that my Christmas goodie arrive sin time ... it should have been with you by now :-S)

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, you are right, they are only money, and lucky me I have a good work and more or less I can always face this event. When something like this happen, I always thank that boring work that I don't know how, I seem to do well :-) Thank you for the book, I hope it arrives soon, I can't wait to read it. Elisa

Bad day

[identity profile] ceagles.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Well things should get better. To help you a long I say an extra special prayer for you. Merry Christmas.

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[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you :-) And Merry Christmas also to you. Elisa
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[identity profile] alex-beecroft.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh no! I'm sorry to hear about your accident and your poor car. I'm glad that you are well, but is there anything I can do as far as the money goes? I usually get some at Christmas - I could send you some.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Nooo, really Alex, if there was enough for a gift, there is enough for the car. I was only upset since my plan went to hell, but really, it's not the money the real problem, it's only the bad coincedence all together... But thank you for the nice thought. Elisa

[identity profile] kitzheng.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you had something to smile about at the end of the day, and that you're physically all right after the accident! I hope that tomorrow will be much better!

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Kit :-) Tonight I'm a bit out of phase, I'm wondering the net and almost doing nothing... Yes tomorrow will be better and hope the New Year too. Elisa

[identity profile] chrissymunder.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Sending you my best wishes, Elisa. The important thing is that you weren't hurt too badly despite the way everything else can tend to overshadow that.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes Chrissy, it's true. I tend to box up a lot of tension and when things like this happen I tend to let it all go at once. Then the next day I'm up ready to start again. Elisa

[identity profile] norton-gale.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
What a relief that you weren't seriously hurt!

*hugs*

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you :-) No, in this moment I have a bit of headache but I'm sure that tomorrow it will be gone. Elisa

[identity profile] lee-rowan.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
A car can be replaced, you can't. I've had whiplash several times, so -- be nice to yourself, and go to a doctor or massage person if you start getting head or neck aches in a week or two. You don't always feel it at first, but the force of any impact bad enough to wreck a car also hit your body...

Take care! I'm glad you survived in one piece.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I still don't know where I hit the head, if on the side window or the wheel, it was so fast. I have a very small cut, almost nothing, on the head and I feel a bit of pain under the hair on the same side, but the neck for now is good. I'm at home the next few days, so if something happen, my mom is with me. Elisa
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[identity profile] pandorasvase.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* per fortuna non ti sei fatta nulla di grave. Per quanto sia faticoso e possa costare, una macchina è sostituibile ma una persona no.

Anche se capisco benissimo che al momento la questione auto e soldi scoccia dannatamente.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Si lo so. E' che tra l'altro mia madre l'aveva appena sistemata (aveva fatto un incidente lei in settembre mentre ero negli USA), e quindi ci avevamo già speso un po'... inoltre è vecchiotta sarebbe ora di cambiarla, ma una nuova non la posso proprio prendere. La macchina mi serve per andare a lavoro, per fortuna siamo vicino a Natale e posso lavorare da casa per alcuni giorni, così con le vacanze di Natale ed il resto, il carrozziere dovrebbe sistemarla per l'Epifania... speriamo, domani se la vengono a prendere, non posso neanche portarla io perchè la carrozzeria si è incrinata e tocca sulle ruote davanti :-( Elisa

[identity profile] 4everinblujeans.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Hope you're feeling better now *hugs*
Take care.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you :-) Yes I'm a little better now, I decided to read a bit, and this is always make me feel better. Elisa

[identity profile] byanca-silver.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 10:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear about your accident and injury. I hope you will be okay soon. Thankfully, you were able to make it home and to such a nice package that was able to lift your spirits some.
Please be careful of your head injury.

Byanca

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Byanca. Yes if tomorrow I'm not right I will go to see a doctor, even if I don't like to :-) Elisa
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[personal profile] julesjones 2008-12-17 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad to hear you're more or less in one piece. But look after yourself the next few days, because even mild concussion can leave you very distracted.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes I will. It's good that I don't have to drive for the next days. Thank you, Elisa

[identity profile] cicirossi.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
oh ack. Hope things get better soon!

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sure of this. I can break down for some moment or two, but then everything goes right. It will pass also this time. Thank you, Elisa

[identity profile] darkmarguerite.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* You'll get through this Elisa. Lots of warm thoughts and virtual hugs your way.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you :-) Yes I know, and it's always good to have such great f-list. Elisa

[identity profile] a-j-mirag.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you had this accident, and wish you good luck.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you, for the wish and the luck :-) Elisa

[identity profile] lilygcs.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry about your accident. Hope you feel better real soon :)

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I'm just a little bit better. Now probably I will go to sleep and tomorrow will be a new day :-) Elisa

[identity profile] b-sheridan.livejournal.com 2008-12-17 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Hugs and best wises to you, Elisa.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you Barbara. Really appreciated. Elisa

[identity profile] leeteng.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Elisa, So sorry to hear about your accident but glad you did not sustain any serious injury. Hope the financial cost is not too much :(. Do drive carefully and do take care.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 07:16 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. In this moment I have no mood to take again a car, but I will do and I will try to be careful. Elisa

[identity profile] ebony-silvers.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Just a quick hug and to let you know I'm sorry your day sucked.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 07:16 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. Today I'm still a bit down, but it's just better. Elisa

[identity profile] joelyskye.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no! So sorry to hear about your accident and that you were hurt, too. Take care of yourself.

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 07:17 am (UTC)(link)
My head is still a bit dumb, but this morning I'm more upset than anything. Thank you, Elisa

[identity profile] snowmore.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Elisa!!

(((((Hugs))))

Thank heavens you weren't injured more seriously! I hope you recover very quickly.

Take care and rest!

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 07:19 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you Robin. Yes, I'm lucky to have only and headache and it will pass soon. Elisa

[identity profile] zamaxfield.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
Ohmygosh! Please please be all right! Our family will keep you in our thoughts and prayers, (((((hugs))))) and if you find yourself having any kind of symptoms that even make you think for a second that you have more than a mild concussion please see a doctor! (I dislike going to the doctor too.) Your muscles might stiffen up and you may want to get a massage. Lots of water! So glad you're okay!

[identity profile] elisa-rolle.livejournal.com 2008-12-18 07:20 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for the advice and hugs. I will try to be careful and listen to by body message :-) Elisa

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