A forced farewell

[reviews_and_ramblings]

In this moment I'm wondering if people know how hurt they can do with a simple click. I lost a friend on LJ some days ago, he removed me from his friendlist without a word. As I said in a previous post, I know that my LJ can be "particular" (to be gentle) and so I tried to justify that act. But it still hurt, since I believed we were friend beyond LJ. He has my email, he could say a word before doing something like that, and instead nothing. I didn't write to him since I had done in the past, when I noticed some strange things happening, a "cold" in our emails or comments that I hadn't found before, but he said that no, nothing had changed and I thought maybe it was a language barrier.

When he removed me from his friendlist, I removed him from mine too, it's my rule, but I fed his blog... stupid me, I was thinking to at least leaving a link. Then this night he removed me from another social network, again without a word... and now I hear the message loud and clear. I removed him too, from that social network and also from the feeds of my LJ. I also removed the tag I had of him but I didn't remove the posts.

I have an idea why he did so, and this make me even more sad. I really believed him a friend. I have learned a lesson more tonight.

ETA: I also deleted my account on Twitter, the worst personal experiences I had in these last months are due to that social network. If you were friend of me there, you know where to find me, I didn't friend no one on Twitter that it was not my friend also on LJ.

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forced farewell

[(Anonymous)]

Hey Elisa - Sorry about that hurt to you. You're such a sweet person. Easy as it is for me to say, definitely DON'T take it personally. Chances are this guy could have gotten involved with a really jealous girlfriend who spied on his e-mail and Internet activities, turned to him and said, "Elisa who? Get rid of her!" and he didn't have the inner strength to refuse. This kind of thing happens.

Re: forced farewell

[elisa-rolle.livejournal.com]

I know so much that person that I can tell that this is not the reason, even if I would like to be. Removing me from LJ, from his friendlist, it could have been justify to my "passion" for pictures, sometime a bit too explicit... this was my first thought and for this reason I justified him the other day. Removing me from this other network tonight, that has no reason, only that he doesn't want me no more in his life. Fine, message received. It hurts, but all right. I lost you, but you will loose me. Elisa