"In February of 2008 I embarked on a journey to photograph out-and-proud gay men throughout the country happily living where they choose. Compelled by factors in my personal life, I decided to go at it full force and hit up every state in the nation. This was to be a journey of healing on the personal and community level, and I met some great people along the way.
Kevin & Mark Kearney, MO. To begin with, let me say that since high school, I had private thoughts about sex with guys, or wondered what they looked like under those clothes, etc. I had these thoughts and fantasies throughout my life until my divorce in late 2007. I had NEVER acted upon those fantasies or even told anyone about them. Heck, I could barely admit to myself that I was having those fantasies. I was too afraid of the possible consequences if I told anyone, and fearful of societies perceptions of people that were gay. I had led the straight life and had a handful of long term relationships with women. My marriage to my wife ended after almost 14 years and three kids. All my life something was missing. ( read more ) The project that ensued was beyond my expectations. I used the internet to cast my subjects, and asked men to write me about their lives and why they should be included. I then took incredible road trips to meet them and began to see Gay America through their eyes, and through them I learned a lot about myself along the way. I photographed everyone in or near their homes, to find them comfortable in their own environment. To accomplish this, I drove about 26.000 miles and flew the same distance, the equivalent of going around the world twice. That adds ip to 120 shoots to date in all fifty states (well, fifty-one with the District of Columbia), over 150 people (ninety single guys, twenty-eight couples, and two triads). I met so many men across the geographic spectrum of the country that I may have actually just executed an informal gay census. Of these, nine Michaels made that the gayest name; Kevin and Paul tied for second place with five each. And gay men do love their animals: I also shot thirty-four dogs, five cats, three birds, a horse and a cow, and to my surprise, a lot of goats.
Roger & Scotty Tulsa, OK. Came across your ad and was quite taken by it... Sounds interesting. We are a Gay couple in our early 40's and home owner here in Tulsa, I (scotty) work with a landscape designer and Roger is a building engineer. we are going on 8yrs into our journey together thru life. Stable, sane and proud of who and what we are.... We are quote(out) but yet we don"t flaunt it either. Roger also does part-time photography as a side business and we are interested in what you may be doing. If we have something to offer you in this adventure please contact us. We both also work alot on our home we purchased 6 yrs ago... We have done all the work ourselves, taken an old 1939 craftsman style home and taken it down to the 2x4's and started all over... Almost done, lol... So if we meet your criteria let me know... This huge survey includes these men's stories, happy and sad, hopeful and pragmatic, contemplative of the past or just celebrating in the moment. These stories are of life, and death; two of the men I photographed have since passed on. One of these, a guy named Chris from Kansas, would be the absent link that brought the two men he was dating at the time of his death - Kevin and Mark - together. To have them all included in this project is incredible. Also moving for me was to meet Henry and Scott from Minneapolis, who lost their son Cameron to brain cancer shortly after the shoot. But of course, along with these tragedies came the positive messages all these people affirmed.
Alex Seward, AK. As I sit here, and think of what to type to you that will sound interesting about my gay life, I realized that its no contest to see if I can write the best few paragraphs for you, hell I am interesting in my own ways, just as every other out gay man is. We have chatted back and forth a handful of times, and well you are right about me, my part in this project of yours is very informal! ha! Growing up in Oklahoma will teach a kid to be on his best behavior, respect his elders, use the words "sir" and "ma'am" (where also oklahoma is the only place I have found that women still accept being called ma'am without a scowl or frown for being a little older) I went to church, did what I was told and had a pretty set schedule with school, sports, and family. ( read more ) This was the great American road trip that somehow had never been done before. And like every great journey, once I began there was no looking back. Like I said, this started as a personal project, but I soon realized how political the personal can be. Gay rights are human rights, and if we focus less on general concepts like gay pride and share our stories of our similarities to everyone - because we know that by being who we are we are normal - we can make crucial steps to change negative attitudes about homosexuality. Times certainly are changing, but there's still such a long way to go before we are all treated equally and fairly. By highlighting these great men, who fall outside of many gay cliches and stereotypes, I'm making my own effort in the slow process of positive change." --Scott Pasfield (
http://www.scottpasfield.com/)

Gay in America by Scott Pasfield
Hardcover: 224 pages
Publisher: Welcome Books (September 27, 2011)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1599621045
ISBN-13: 978-1599621043
Amazon:
Gay in America In this first-ever photographic survey of gay men in America, stereotypes are laid to rest and an intimate, honest picture of contemporary gay life is revealed through stunning personal portraits and narratives.
Photographer Scott Pasfield traveled 52,000 miles across all fifty states over a two-year span gathering stories and documenting the lives of 150 gay men from all walks of life. At turns joyful and somber, reflective and celebratory, each narrative and image is an enlightening look into the variety of gay life in the United States.
Pasfield’s striking and perceptive portraits reflect the same beautiful diversity found in any sampling of our population. Each of these men is unique and whole, complex and fallible, just as we all are. They come in every size and shape, every religion, color, profession, and background. There are farmers, writers, doctors, lawyers, artists, teachers, students; there are fathers and husbands, activists, and business men. Some are successful, some are struggling, some are political, some are wealthy, some are wounded, and some are deeply content.
Their commonality draws from a single shared trait: their homosexuality. These are men who are attracted to men, and have chosen not to disguise that truth. For many, there have been harsh consequences to this decision, but also deep rewards. The message that prevails is one of great hope that true equality is close within our reach, if only we would grasp it.
SCOTT PASFIELD is a New York-based photographer who specializes in portraiture. His work has appeared in numerous publications, from BlackBook to Fortune, Poz to Gotham. His clients include the Independent Film Channel, Time, Inc., and the American Red Cross. Scott has taught at the Sante Fe Photography Workshops and is a member of Platon's celebrated Nutopia Forum. He and his partner Nick divide their time between New York City, Long Island, and Vermont.
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