America's Gay Bachelor Contest 2009
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reviews_and_ramblingsAdam Bouska, a photographer I like very much, shot the winner and finalists of the America's Gay Bachelor Contest 2009, a contest holds by a gay matchmaking website, MyPartner. What made me smile is that the presentation of the website says "Gay Long Term Relationship" and the first question on the member's profile is if they are "family guys"... probably there is much less behind, but at least I like the cover!
For the enjoyment of my female friends and to give a tip to my "more romantic" male friends, here are winner and finalists:
Winner: Mr. California
Name: Alejandro
Hometown: San Diego, Software Engineer
In his own words: If I'm not AGB 2009, I will be one of these years. I'm articulate, well-read, in shape, enjoy risk. I like Cheetos, cartoons, corn-on-the-cob, cats, dogs, and tortoises, and I'm a natural at backrubs. Mother's sigh at my approach. Dad's do too, secretly. I'm supportive but can ask for help. I'm comfortable anywhere, from Gaylandia to Antarctica, in jobs from the cubicle to the power plant, and generally feel invigorated by life's upsets, not intimidated. I'm told by others that I have a knack for having unexpected fun, that I seem responsible and self-assured and, I think, well... I am. It's not that I am stoic and unmoving, but I just really like life and people. Even if they get me down, I sort of like that they can have some effect on me. "I am a human being, so nothing human is foreign to me" And I like nothing better than negotiating all that human-ness with a fellow "partner-in-crime." Be crafty, be open, be involved. Just don't be bored.
Family guy: Yes sirree. I'd like to be married and have at least three kids.
Smooch scoop: Sending a homemade video and coordinating a few small gifts to a bf when I was in Antarctica.
Sexiest man getups: Confidant bearing, wit, nice butt.
Dating pet peeve: Asking me out and then not having a plan in mind. I like date dates, not just "hanging out."
Listen up, men: Doesn't want to live abroad ever. Doesn't talk. Hates kids. Is 100% bottom. C'mon, reciprocity!
Future goal: Saving toward housing purchase down payment, purchase motorcycle, finish creating private company.
Finalist: Mr. Arizona
Name: Jacob
Hometown: Tucson, I manage a small division of a Software and Services company
In his own words: It's an honor to be nominated for this contest. I am a 30 year-old guy living in Arizona with a masters degree, a rewarding job, and a loving family. I want to share my life with someone special, and to share in theirs; to appreciate the world, to help others, and to enjoy each other. Whether a trip to the movies or a weekend rendezvous in Lima, Lausanne, or Los Angeles, I want to travel and experience life together. =) Relationships may be imperfect; however, the work we invest makes them special and wonderful.
Family guy: Family is important and I hope to be a part of his. Marriage and kids are possible.
Smooch scoop: I chartered a plane from India to the Maldives to deliver flowers; he meant that much to me.
Sexiest man getups: Sure of his chances, he'd approach with a confident step and a mischievous smile.
Dating pet peeve: When a date spends all night bragging or preening, I feign sleepiness or an early call for work.
Listen up, men: I have a few full-stops; specifically, smoking and drugs are disqualifiers.
Future goal: I will complete an MBA in 2009. Big party at my place when I finish this November!
Finalist: Mr. Indiana
Name: Andrew
Hometown: Indianapolis, Medical Student
In his own words: Most people who know me would probably say I am quite a catch but I am too modest to ever admit it. I'd like to think that I have a lot to offer in a relationship. I am a stable, driven, educated individual with a passion for living each day to its fullest. You could say I am old-fashioned when it comes to relationships in that I don't believe in hook-ups or sex on the first date and monogamy is still an important value in my book. Ideally, I would like to find someone I could grow old with and have everyday feel like the first time we met. I'd like to believe that there is someone out there looking for the same thing as I am.
Family guy: I am definitely a family guy. I come from a large family and I would like at least 2 kids one day.
Smooch scoop: Last V-day I made dinner for my boyfriend at the time and had rose petals, candles, the whole bit.
Sexiest man getups: A guy catches my eye by being confident yet not cocky. Oh course good looks don't hurt either.
Dating pet peeve: I'd have to say arrogance is my biggest turn-off.
Listen up, men: Someone who is not willing to be completely honest up front.
Future goal: My goal is to graduate medical school and enter a residency in dermatology.
Finalist: Mr. Massachusetts
Name: Brendan
Hometown: Malden, Print Project Manager
In his own words: I'm an easy-going, kind, honest, and friendly guy. Sometimes I think the fact that I like bearish older men works against me, because a lot of them think that someone like would not be interested in them. I'm an artist, musician, in graduate school, work full-time, have my own apartment, and have carved this path mostly on my own. I love to travel, speak Italian, I don't drink excessively or do drugs, and I hit the gym 4 times a week. My friends and family are very important to me. Lastly, I'm loyal, passionate, spontaneous, and I love to laugh.
Family guy: Not a family guy right now, but would consider it later in life.
Smooch scoop: When he was coming home from a business trip, I surprised him with flowers, dinner, and me.
Sexiest man getups: Gray/salt and pepper hairy, stocky thick (not fat) build, wearing a suit, with a handsome face.
Dating pet peeve: Guys who lie.
Listen up, men: If the guy tries to impress me by talking about his material things.
Future goal: Complete another piece of artwork and enter it into an art show.
Finalist: Mr. Rhode Island
Name: Ron
Hometown: Cranston, Model
In his own words: Im gay and a bachelor,LOL would really like to meet that guy to spend the rest of my life with,if you can help its all good! I'm a down to earth honest, caring, kind, considerate guy here, I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but when I'm proven wrong I move on a little stronger and wiser than before and I don't let it get me down. I try to surround myself with honest, considerate and caring people ,do my best to help others, but sometimes I totally misjudge peoples character and intentions, I learn from it and move on, don't have time for the players. As I always say "It's all good" and it is, I have been blessed with a great family and fantastic friends and will keep it that way, as for the rest, learn to be compassionate and considerate of other peoples feelings, because the world doesn't revolve around you no matter what your going through good or bad, selfish actions have consequences and you end up hurting people due to your own self-centeredness and ultimately alone. However, Hope springs eternal. : )
Family guy: Family in the sence I love my family and realtives, do I want children? Not at this time.
His perfect partner: My perfect partner would be handsome, funny, intelligent, kind, considerate, compassionate and sincere. He would be 6" or taller, muscular body, nice teeth, and nice skin.
Smooch scoop: Flying to Paris to surprise me while I was in a fashoin show.
Sexiest man getups: Someone who is somewhat shy is always a turn on.
Dating pet peeve: Texting and talking on the cell phone while on a date.
I have to say that, all in all, Mr. California is nice, but my favorite is Mr. Massachusetts.
For the enjoyment of my female friends and to give a tip to my "more romantic" male friends, here are winner and finalists:
Winner: Mr. California
Name: Alejandro Hometown: San Diego, Software Engineer
In his own words: If I'm not AGB 2009, I will be one of these years. I'm articulate, well-read, in shape, enjoy risk. I like Cheetos, cartoons, corn-on-the-cob, cats, dogs, and tortoises, and I'm a natural at backrubs. Mother's sigh at my approach. Dad's do too, secretly. I'm supportive but can ask for help. I'm comfortable anywhere, from Gaylandia to Antarctica, in jobs from the cubicle to the power plant, and generally feel invigorated by life's upsets, not intimidated. I'm told by others that I have a knack for having unexpected fun, that I seem responsible and self-assured and, I think, well... I am. It's not that I am stoic and unmoving, but I just really like life and people. Even if they get me down, I sort of like that they can have some effect on me. "I am a human being, so nothing human is foreign to me" And I like nothing better than negotiating all that human-ness with a fellow "partner-in-crime." Be crafty, be open, be involved. Just don't be bored.
Family guy: Yes sirree. I'd like to be married and have at least three kids.
Smooch scoop: Sending a homemade video and coordinating a few small gifts to a bf when I was in Antarctica.
Sexiest man getups: Confidant bearing, wit, nice butt.
Dating pet peeve: Asking me out and then not having a plan in mind. I like date dates, not just "hanging out."
Listen up, men: Doesn't want to live abroad ever. Doesn't talk. Hates kids. Is 100% bottom. C'mon, reciprocity!
Future goal: Saving toward housing purchase down payment, purchase motorcycle, finish creating private company.
Finalist: Mr. Arizona
Name: Jacob Hometown: Tucson, I manage a small division of a Software and Services company
In his own words: It's an honor to be nominated for this contest. I am a 30 year-old guy living in Arizona with a masters degree, a rewarding job, and a loving family. I want to share my life with someone special, and to share in theirs; to appreciate the world, to help others, and to enjoy each other. Whether a trip to the movies or a weekend rendezvous in Lima, Lausanne, or Los Angeles, I want to travel and experience life together. =) Relationships may be imperfect; however, the work we invest makes them special and wonderful.
Family guy: Family is important and I hope to be a part of his. Marriage and kids are possible.
Smooch scoop: I chartered a plane from India to the Maldives to deliver flowers; he meant that much to me.
Sexiest man getups: Sure of his chances, he'd approach with a confident step and a mischievous smile.
Dating pet peeve: When a date spends all night bragging or preening, I feign sleepiness or an early call for work.
Listen up, men: I have a few full-stops; specifically, smoking and drugs are disqualifiers.
Future goal: I will complete an MBA in 2009. Big party at my place when I finish this November!
Finalist: Mr. Indiana
Name: Andrew Hometown: Indianapolis, Medical Student
In his own words: Most people who know me would probably say I am quite a catch but I am too modest to ever admit it. I'd like to think that I have a lot to offer in a relationship. I am a stable, driven, educated individual with a passion for living each day to its fullest. You could say I am old-fashioned when it comes to relationships in that I don't believe in hook-ups or sex on the first date and monogamy is still an important value in my book. Ideally, I would like to find someone I could grow old with and have everyday feel like the first time we met. I'd like to believe that there is someone out there looking for the same thing as I am.
Family guy: I am definitely a family guy. I come from a large family and I would like at least 2 kids one day.
Smooch scoop: Last V-day I made dinner for my boyfriend at the time and had rose petals, candles, the whole bit.
Sexiest man getups: A guy catches my eye by being confident yet not cocky. Oh course good looks don't hurt either.
Dating pet peeve: I'd have to say arrogance is my biggest turn-off.
Listen up, men: Someone who is not willing to be completely honest up front.
Future goal: My goal is to graduate medical school and enter a residency in dermatology.
Finalist: Mr. Massachusetts
Name: Brendan Hometown: Malden, Print Project Manager
In his own words: I'm an easy-going, kind, honest, and friendly guy. Sometimes I think the fact that I like bearish older men works against me, because a lot of them think that someone like would not be interested in them. I'm an artist, musician, in graduate school, work full-time, have my own apartment, and have carved this path mostly on my own. I love to travel, speak Italian, I don't drink excessively or do drugs, and I hit the gym 4 times a week. My friends and family are very important to me. Lastly, I'm loyal, passionate, spontaneous, and I love to laugh.
Family guy: Not a family guy right now, but would consider it later in life.
Smooch scoop: When he was coming home from a business trip, I surprised him with flowers, dinner, and me.
Sexiest man getups: Gray/salt and pepper hairy, stocky thick (not fat) build, wearing a suit, with a handsome face.
Dating pet peeve: Guys who lie.
Listen up, men: If the guy tries to impress me by talking about his material things.
Future goal: Complete another piece of artwork and enter it into an art show.
Finalist: Mr. Rhode Island
Name: Ron Hometown: Cranston, Model
In his own words: Im gay and a bachelor,LOL would really like to meet that guy to spend the rest of my life with,if you can help its all good! I'm a down to earth honest, caring, kind, considerate guy here, I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but when I'm proven wrong I move on a little stronger and wiser than before and I don't let it get me down. I try to surround myself with honest, considerate and caring people ,do my best to help others, but sometimes I totally misjudge peoples character and intentions, I learn from it and move on, don't have time for the players. As I always say "It's all good" and it is, I have been blessed with a great family and fantastic friends and will keep it that way, as for the rest, learn to be compassionate and considerate of other peoples feelings, because the world doesn't revolve around you no matter what your going through good or bad, selfish actions have consequences and you end up hurting people due to your own self-centeredness and ultimately alone. However, Hope springs eternal. : )
Family guy: Family in the sence I love my family and realtives, do I want children? Not at this time.
His perfect partner: My perfect partner would be handsome, funny, intelligent, kind, considerate, compassionate and sincere. He would be 6" or taller, muscular body, nice teeth, and nice skin.
Smooch scoop: Flying to Paris to surprise me while I was in a fashoin show.
Sexiest man getups: Someone who is somewhat shy is always a turn on.
Dating pet peeve: Texting and talking on the cell phone while on a date.
I have to say that, all in all, Mr. California is nice, but my favorite is Mr. Massachusetts.
