Thank you again

[reviews_and_ramblings]

Thank you again to all people who left a comment to help me going through a bad moment. I, as always, appreciated all of them.

At the same time when I was going through it, the person who did it send me an email, in reply to the one I sent him to ask a reason of what was happening. I can understand his reason, I really can, but I can't understand, or accept, that he didn't feel the need to warning me before. As someone of you said in a comment, I think it's not a sign to have not sensibility or courage, but more a sign that he, himself, was going through a bad moment. But I also think that, even when I'm at my worst moment, I have always to think what my actions do to other people.

At least I know that, as he said and you said, it's not me, or something I did, but for sure I also know that a relationship that I thought was special and tight, has now a loose thread that will always weaken it.

Comments

[lab-jazz.livejournal.com]

but for sure I also know that a relationship that I thought was special and tight, has now a loose thread that will always weaken it.

Yeah, you can have an argument with someone who was special to you and then end up 'fixing' it and being friends again, but it's never quite the same. Once it's weakened it's so much easier to break it again, and you're far less forgiving the second time around.

It's always hard to lose a friend, a cyber friend even more so because real life people don't understand your sadness. Their attitude is "You only knew him on the Internet...he wasn't a real person."
They need to experience a close cyber friendship in order to understand how much of yourself that you invest in them and how gutted you feel when they fall apart.

hugs

[shadownyc.livejournal.com]

*HUGS* It's hard to lose a friend... especially when you don't expect it.